Mila's blog

Each of us has something broken in our lives. A broken promise, a broken dream, a broken marriage, a broken heart and we must decide how we’re going to deal with our brokenness. We can wallow in self-pity or regret, accomplishing nothing and having no fun or joy in our circumstances or we can determine with our will to take a few risks, get out of our comfort zone, and see what God will do to bring unexpected delight in our time of need.

Power doesn’t have to show off. Power is confident,self-assuring,self-starting & self-stopping, self-warming & self-justifying.When u have it,u know it.

The Break up

Listen… it’s not you, it’s me!! I love you, but I love me more. I want to be good to you, but I have to be better to me. I want to appreciate you, but I have to appreciate me first. I want to make you smile, but I need to smile too. I would give you MY LAST, but I need to have it to give. I realize I can’t get UP because this is dragging me DOWN! I’m ready to get there, but I can’t get there from here. I deserve happiness and HAPPINESS doesn’t wait. It’s time for me to GROW. And because I have to grow, it’s time to let you GO!! I am deaf to your screams, because my heart whispers for something more. It’s time to elevate! ~ Sometimes you have to END something to BEGIN something better

(Source: Spotify)

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“I learned the hard way that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings, even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn’t guarantee that others will be good people, too. You only have control over yourself and how you choose to be as a person. As for others, you can only choose to accept them or walk away.”

To have that special connection with someone is very rare.Don’t ever let them go, because someday they will be gone from ur life. You will never knew how much u appreciate them.

Problems are not a PROBLEM. They are LESSONS to be learned. If u don’t get the lesson, u will surely keep facing the SAME PROBLEM again & again until u get it. Seek the lesson. Don’t fight & fret about the problem.

Life to short

Life is too short for…compromising, drama, being sad, settling, depression, selling your self short, not going hard every single day. Beating yourself up too much, staying in your own mind for a long time, allowing disrespect, not staying challenged, getting uncomfortable in order to GET comfortable. NOT getting a little crazy and being out of control and letting loose, judging, hanging with those that judge…etc. = being heathy MIND 💡BODY & SOUL! We can’t always choose but we can change! ️

Eleven Hints for Life

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.

4. It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose
it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don’t go for looks, they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other’s shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you’re the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.