Mila's blog

I thought about this today and came to the realization that sometimes it is necessary to limit or eliminate our contact with certain individuals who bring us more misery than peace and do not reflect or allow us to be the person that we truly are or aspire to become. Instead, we need to surround ourselves with positive thinkers who are not always creating drama around us in one way or another. We need to choose people who will make our day brighter simply by being around them. Find those people who we admire, those who we are proud to know, those who support us, motivate us and those who will encourage us to grow. Those are the keepers in our life.

Each of us has something broken in our lives. A broken promise, a broken dream, a broken marriage, a broken heart and we must decide how we’re going to deal with our brokenness. We can wallow in self-pity or regret, accomplishing nothing and having no fun or joy in our circumstances or we can determine with our will to take a few risks, get out of our comfort zone, and see what God will do to bring unexpected delight in our time of need.

Power doesn’t have to show off. Power is confident,self-assuring,self-starting & self-stopping, self-warming & self-justifying.When u have it,u know it.

The Break up

Listen… it’s not you, it’s me!! I love you, but I love me more. I want to be good to you, but I have to be better to me. I want to appreciate you, but I have to appreciate me first. I want to make you smile, but I need to smile too. I would give you MY LAST, but I need to have it to give. I realize I can’t get UP because this is dragging me DOWN! I’m ready to get there, but I can’t get there from here. I deserve happiness and HAPPINESS doesn’t wait. It’s time for me to GROW. And because I have to grow, it’s time to let you GO!! I am deaf to your screams, because my heart whispers for something more. It’s time to elevate! ~ Sometimes you have to END something to BEGIN something better

(Source: Spotify)

(Source: Spotify)

“I learned the hard way that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings, even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn’t guarantee that others will be good people, too. You only have control over yourself and how you choose to be as a person. As for others, you can only choose to accept them or walk away.”

To have that special connection with someone is very rare.Don’t ever let them go, because someday they will be gone from ur life. You will never knew how much u appreciate them.

Problems are not a PROBLEM. They are LESSONS to be learned. If u don’t get the lesson, u will surely keep facing the SAME PROBLEM again & again until u get it. Seek the lesson. Don’t fight & fret about the problem.

Life to short

Life is too short for…compromising, drama, being sad, settling, depression, selling your self short, not going hard every single day. Beating yourself up too much, staying in your own mind for a long time, allowing disrespect, not staying challenged, getting uncomfortable in order to GET comfortable. NOT getting a little crazy and being out of control and letting loose, judging, hanging with those that judge…etc. = being heathy MIND 💡BODY & SOUL! We can’t always choose but we can change! ️